Hi,
A bit of advice that relates to helping all of your children, not just the ones with albinism!
I am a 57 year old mom of thrree daughters and grandma of three grandsons. I am the one with OCA1a, the rest have normal pigmentation and vision. My middle daughter has an emothional disability and my youngest had a slight speech delay when she was in early elementary schoolo--just a couple of certain sounds. So I went down the IEP route with them--always a challenge.
As for deciding amongst a public, private or school for the blind. This will end up being an individual decision and the same answer doesn't apply to everyone. Children are not all the same, neither are school districts, teachers of the visually impaired, docters, etc. The answer of which school your child should attend may change over time to meet their needs.
That said, I am in a rather unique position as to how I was educated back in the 60s and 70s. I got to sample several options.
I started kindergarten two months before I turned 5 in 1964. From kindergarten through third grade, I was educated at our neighborhood schoo with no extra help other than my mom going in and tlalking to the principal and teachers about what I needed--to sit in front, etc. For the most part it worked as I did very well in school. Of course, this was long before IEPS were the law. However, not all teachers appreciate parents always telling them how to treat their child--I think some see ity as you questioning their teaching skills. It is like anything else, the 'experts' seem to think they knopw what is best because they have the education. Which isn't always the case. It did help that mom was a substitute teacher in the district, though.
My brother, two years younger than me, didn't do as well in early elementary school. Part of it I think was what I sometimes call the boy thing---he just didn't want to go to school. By the middle of first grade, he was sent to a school in Milwaukee (we live in a suburb--Cudahy) which had a class for the visually impaired. It was referred to as a "Sight'saving'class", but was really more of a resource room. So in fourth grad, I also went there. There were acvtually two classes--one for first through third, the other fourth through sixth. About ten kids in each of these two. We werre in regular classes most of the time--how much depended on the individual somewhat. We went to the resource room for reading--large print books were readily available, for study time at least some of the time, and to take tests. There was a special copy machine in there where our teacher could make darker copies of things. There were some visual aids like magnifiers, also. ept that they were specially made to type in a large font! The teacher helped us learn to advocate for ourselves in the regular classroom etc. Mrs. Hermann, our teacher in the fourht through sixth grade room, was a fabulous lady--I remained in touch with her until just a few years ago.
Mrs. Hermann recommended that I return to our local school district for junior high in seventh grade. I attended that school through ninth grade, as was the custom then. Again, I did well, with little accomodations. Getting to sit in front, which really didn't help in most cases, some large print books, which I kept at home and didn't use because the page numbers didn't coincide and the pictures and diagrams were lacking. We had a very understanding principal--I had an advantage the first day of school over the other kids in seventh grade! I got to go in the week before and he gave me my schedule and we walked through the school with it and found the classes. I already knew the layout of the school and was one up on the others!!
My brother did not go to school there. He was sent to the school for the blind in seventh grade ( he was two years behind me in school). So, in tenth grade, when I would have gone to the high school, I too went to the school for the blind. I graduated from there in 1977--the year IEPS became law I believe! The superiontendent fglat out tould me a month bfore I graduated his reasons for agreeing to my attendance at the school for the blind and what he would have recommended now that there were IEPS. I wanted to be involved in EVERYTHING when I was in school and wasn't always allowed to in my local school district. Not necessarily a blatant no, but like not being picked for parts in a play and stuff like that when I was more than capable. At the blind school I got to try everything. He admitted that at the time it wasn't agood academic fit for me. With an IEP, I would have stayed in my home district, with a resource person who checked with me once or twice a week for an hour or so to make sure I was getting what I needed, since I was well able to tell others what that was.
I think that schools for the blind have lots to offer, often only as a short term placement thesed days-- a semester or a year. Training with different visual aids, mobility--not necessarily using a cane, but learninig safe ways to travel and how to travel without driving--not all of us will be able to drive. Also Braille. Nowadays, many of the schools for the blind work more closely with the local school districs, providing advice and resources. The long term placements are usually students with other issues besides a visual impairment. Sometimes it is children whose home district just can't (I'm not saying won't) provide what is appropriate for the child. Also, there are children, although I doubt it would every be anyone on these bouards!--whose parents just don't have the skills to give their disabled (Iknow some of you don't like that word) children the education they need, in and out of school.
Make the decision that is right for your child when the time comes, and don't be afraid to change courses if the need arises. You want the best outcome in the long run and each of your children is unique. I ended up with a BS degree in biology with a minor in math. Of course, life took some interesting turns and I am not using that education at the moment. But it is still mine and I accomplished it and it can't be taken away.
One last bit of advice in this long rant... One of the most surefire way to help your children in school and know what is really going on there and who the best teachers are, as well as get help willingly from them, is to be a volunteer at your child's school. I don't mean you have to volunteer in your child's class, sometimes that can backfire, or be the PTA president, unless you choose to, but there are so many things that need doing at the schools. A couple of hours a month can make a huge difference. Most of the younger grades need people to do things like tear the pages out of the consumeable textbooks--like the math books, as you don't give first graders entire math workbooks if you want them to pay attention to learning to add one plus one! You can be the person who collects and counts the Campbells soup labels and the General MIlls boxtops for eduacation logos. You can help with the fundraisers, the school carnival or fun night, whatever suits you. Your help will be appreciated tremendouslyand in return you are seen as an overall involved parent, not just one who shows up at school when their child needs something or something isn't going well. Don't take offense to that statement, it isn't directed at any of you. There are plenty of parents out there aof children without a disability who do this as well. By bolunteering, you will make allies of the teachers and principal and be seen as a true partner in your child's education. It will make getting your child an appropriate education so much easier!
Thanks for taking the time to read this and good luck with your decisions, whichever path you may choose.
Joni