Familypaws,
Your story is certainly inspiring. I read it today which happened to be a not so happy day for me after reading about some Kenyan guy who was attempting to sell a person with albinism to Tanzania. That really upset my usually cool emotional balance.
Kryss,
I'm also from Zimbabwe but I'm currently studying in South Africa, should be done end of this year. You and I share quite a lot of similarity in background. I'm turning 35 in November. I'm single, have 'on' and 'off' had the fears that you have. My younger sister who also has albinism and is younger by a year and a half was married two years ago but to an Anglican priest who according to her is unfaithful and a drunk. She has two daughters, both probably carriers of albinism but they have what most would call the normal pigment. I have chosen not to marry 'just for the sake of being married'. I will marry someone I love and someone who truly loves me (within human capabilities, of course), otherwise, I'll adapt to being single forever. I keep culturing myself to face both possible eventualities, singleness forever or marriage. The way I see it, both sides of that coin have their pros and cons. Marriage would have been ideal but not at any cost.
Hope that my thoughts are useful to you or somebody else on here.
You must not lose faith in humanity. Humanity is an ocean; if a few drops of the ocean are dirty, the ocean does not become dirty. (Mahatma Gandhi)