Hi Kaycee,
My lil Drew has quite bad strabismus and did the same as Carrah... it got more noticable at about 9 months. My docs weren't that stressed about the immediacy of getting it all fixed ASAP. (I am usually very impatient with their lack of hurriedness) but it took 6 months to get into an opthal anyway.
He now wears a patch every day for about two hours between sleeps (and opthal thinks he will for a while {2years} yet...) Leading up to waiting for opthal I did some excercises everyday to get him desensitised to having a patch on like covering his strong eye and getting him to try and focus on me... playing peekaboo games with one hand over the strong eye, etc.
If you are into altertantive stuff, kinesiology is a great relaxant for the strong eye. This is where you place your palm gently over the strong eye and gently hold the head with your other hand behind the base of the skull and hold it there for about a minute while they relax in a dark area. I used to do it while he slept. The eye gets a bit warm after about a minute from your own body heat and the bub will shrug away a bit, that is when you stop. The theory behind it is that your own electromagnetics which create a path through their little head helps realign all the neuron pathways (which is a apparently for pwalbinism, neuron pathways take a bit of a longer path than needed for the brain to receive the visual message from the eye) I didnt really care much for the theory of it all, but I used to find the boys loved relaxing with it and in some way it helped 'patch' and the heat/closeness relaxed the strong eye.
Waiting for appointments can be annoying as parents when we just want the best for our kids and feel that you could be comprising their future eye sight by not acting now... I know how it feels... so all this stuff just made me feel like I wasn't totally helpless and that I was at least doing something, I think it did help in the end. Cant hurt anyway.
Plus handy tip from an expert patcher... if the opthal suggests patching and you get infant eye patches (removable sticky ones) and find that bub pulls them off all the time, get a strip of FIXAMULL tape (like a second skin) and cut it to fit just a little over the patch and use both together... Drew can not get his little fingers under fixamull and he happily wears his each day.
Getting patches off can be stressful and can really turn bub off wanting them put on. Use REMOVE satches to loosen the adhedsive or olive/vegetable oil works good too. After you remove the patch it may look clear where the eye is but sticky residue is left and within ten minutes dust and muck makes a ring around their eye, so I run the REMOVE patch over the area after removal. it doesnt get all the gunk but it definitely helps. (people will always ask 'whos been drawing on their face then?' thinking that the gunk is texta... as if we dont have enough to explain with the nystagmus, albinism...lol.
Good luck with it all. Your girls are just so gorgeous.
Chloe :)